Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal
Trust, once broken, feels impossible to repair. But with God, restoration is always possible.
The Weight of Broken Trust
When addiction ruled my life, I broke trust with everyone who mattered—my wife, children, friends, and family. Each broken promise felt like another nail in the coffin of my relationships.
Starting with Self-Honesty
Rebuilding trust starts with radical honesty about the damage we've caused. No excuses, no minimizing, no blame-shifting. Just honest acknowledgment of the pain we've inflicted.
Consistent Actions Over Time
Trust isn't rebuilt with words—it's rebuilt with consistent actions over time. Every kept promise, every moment of integrity, every act of selflessness becomes a building block in the foundation of renewed trust.
Patience with the Process
Those we've hurt have every right to be cautious. Patience isn't just a virtue—it's a necessity. We can't rush the healing process for others just because we're ready to move forward.
God's Grace in Relationships
The miracle isn't just that God forgives us—it's that He can soften the hearts of those we've wounded and create opportunities for genuine reconciliation.
Trust can be rebuilt. Relationships can be restored. But it takes time, consistency, and a lot of grace.
